A Word from Father Valentin Mordasov

Praying for those who offended us is something we need to do. It is not easy to teach ourselves not to be angry - it requires time and effort. If you are stop yourself from getting angry, you would do yourself much good. Holy fathers would ask the Lord to send them the kind of people who would offend and insult them in order to remain humble. And how are you going to learn not to get angry without getting offended by other people?

Good Advice to the Faithful

Before you ask forgiveness from the Lord, you must forgive first... That is in the Lords Prayer. Silence is good for the soul. When we talk, it becomes difficut sometimes to not judge or engage in gossip. But there is also silence which comes when someone is angry and that is bad. In order to protect your lips from evil, Apostle Augustine would do as follows: he kept a sign above his table that said "If you like to judge others and gossip about them behind their back, you have no place here." Always remember a rule of spiritual life: if you get annoyed or irritated by a bad habit or a weakness of another person and will judge him for that, you will also ended up doing the same and will suffer from the same weakness. Whoever does not seek from God a heart that is contrite and humble, he will not receive any benefit from his works. ~ Author unknown

A Word about Repentance from St. John of Shanghai and San Francisco

Repentance means changing one's mindset and disposition, changing one's thinking and the whole internal person. Repentance means analyzing your worldview and changing your lifestyle. How can one attain changing him or herself? Imagine, you are in a dark room looking around, examining your surroundings. In the dark, you are not able to see everything that's in the room and can not even imagine what is there because it is so dark. Many things appear to be different from how they are in real life. You have to move around carefully since you do not see the obstacles. And then light enters the room and all of a sudden you can see everything and start moving freely. The same happens in our spiritual life. When we are deep in sin and our mind is occupied with wordly cares we stop being aware of the dirt that is in us! So much sin and so many lies! Some actions that we thought were good turn out to be the opposite. We begin to clearly see wthat we are doing something wrong and it becomes clear which path to take. If we realize our spiritual poverty, our sinfulness, we will desire from our whole heart to be changed and then we become close to salvation. From the bottom of your heart cry out to God: "Have mercy on me of Lord according to Your mercy!" "Forgive me and save me!" "Let me see my transgressions and not just my brother!" When it is lent, let us forgive each other all offenses and hurts. Let everyone hear the words of the Gospel: "If you forgive men transgressions, so will your Father in Heaven forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive yours!" Matthew 6 -14:15.